Summer Dreaming

 

I don’t know about you, but I want to:

Read an entire book in one day.

Eat popsicles after each meal.

Take two naps daily.

Ride a bike with a monkey bar, and streamers on the handles.

Use Sun-In.

Watch ants parade.

Teach toddlers about bubbles.

Listen to the afternoon rain fall on the roof.

Putter.

Laugh with old friends.

Make new friends.

Feel the sun on my shoulders.

Enjoy this summer.

Because all work and no play makes me a very dull girl.

Because play excites my soul.

Because I’m better when I’m relaxed and anti-frantic.

[Bet you are, too.]

So what are your summer dreams?

Wanna have a popsicle and think it over?

Why not go ahead and have two and get started?

[photo credit: Michele Woodward]

Dog Days


They call them the Dog Days of Summer. As if all we can do is let our tongues loll out of our drooling mouths, and pant in the heat.

Which is exactly what I feel like doing.

Sure, there’s plenty going on. The Olympics. The Presidential campaign. Wars in Afghanistan, Iraq and, now, Russia vs. Georgia. The rising and falling price of energy. Credit card reform. Mortgage bailouts. Vice Presidential candidates and political conventions. A lot of hoopla, come to think of it.

And I don’t want to think about it. All I want to do is lay around, tongue lolling, and let August roll over me like a sauna bath. I want to emerge, sweaty and a few pounds lighter, just in time for September.

I want to eat popsicles, and let them drip from my fingers, leaving sticky, colorful trails down my arms.

I want to do a cannonball off the high dive.

I want to go to the movies and make it a double feature, just so I can sit in the air-conditioning.

I want to clothespin cards to my bike spokes and click-clack down the street.

I want Coppertone as my signature scent.

I want to shuck off all the trappings of this adult life and spend the next couple of weeks utterly retro.

So, even if — like me — you’ll be working rather than loafing, you can take a little time to get some summer in your life.

All it takes is one popsicle.

Random Thoughts


Just some random musings on a summer afternoon:

The waiting may be the hardest part, but sometimes it’s the best part.

Want to be happy? Say yes more than you say no, and mean it.

It is unfair that some people are allergic to watermelon.

The best job for you? The one that doesn’t feel like work.

Different is not wrong.

When you’re giving more love than you’re taking out, and it feels effortless and inspiring — you’ve found your life’s purpose.

Ice cream sandwiches may just be the perfect thing to eat at 3pm on a July afternoon.

How to make a million bucks? Reading glasses that work in the shower.

If you need to talk with your teenager, take a long road trip with him or her. Let ‘em drive. That way, they can’t wear their IPod.

The majority of people in the world have no access to air conditioning.

The most electable candidate for vice president — for either party — is General Colin Powell. Second best choice for McCain? Condoleezza Rice. Wouldn’t Dr. King be amazed?

Want to have more love in your life? Be the person you’d fall in love with.

Bring an open mind and open hands to all that you do.

If you don’t know, ask. If you do know, let someone ask before you say anything. Which is a darned good cue for me to wrap it up.

Happy summer.

The Art of Being Lazy


All art requires practice, and patience. Art requires the proper setting, too. And there is no better setting to perfect the art of being lazy than summer.

Being truly lazy seems a lost art in our time of instant messaging, instant gratification — instant everything. We enjoy so many luxuries, except the luxury of time, which is precisely what the lazy state of being requires.

Summer beckons us away from the hustle and bustle and toward laziness. To laze about on a summer Sunday means to recharge batteries. To reconnect with other lazy souls. To rest. To think. To meander. To lollygag. To accomplish much, while accomplishing nothing of any great purpose.

And that’s the point — to have no apparent point. We spend so much of our working days striving. Summer laziness allows us to deposit that baggage at the door and really relax.

What’s funny to me is the number of people who chastise themselves for being “lazy”, yet when asked what they’ve accomplished today, they can tick off ten or twenty things. They don’t see lazy as an art, but as a notion anathema to productive living.

But here’s the deal: the art of being lazy is just as creative as any other art. While you’re being “lazy”, you are allowing your fertile mind to grow and bloom. You are creating something new. A new you.

Lazy is taking a walk — not to get the aerobic workout, but to look at the flowers. Lazy is taking the time to read a book the whole way through — in one sitting. Lazy is a catnap — without giving a hoot about the chores waiting. Lazy is a two hour talk with your teenager about nothing at all, and everything in the world.

Lazy is loving yourself enough to let go of the need to impress and achieve long enough to really and truly relax and recharge.

Being lazy is an art and I mean to be an accomplished practitioner this summer. Will you join me?